Lesbian best friend has changed beyond recognition?

if she can post it on her freaking blog and on youtube then she should have no problem talking to you about it unless you have been noticably unsupportive. its also possible that she is just wrapped up in her new relationship which is very easy to do, in this case there is nothing you really can do but find other people to surround yourself with since she isn't giving you the time of day. saying all that, this isn't completely a gay issue it just sounds like she is just engrossed in this new situation and isn't concerned with anything else right now. does she still talk to you in general but not about this specific situation? if so then let it go and if shes not talking to you at all then move on. i used to get that way all the time when i first started dating girls, i didn't really talk about it with my friends cuz i didnt think they could relate to it and i just ended up alienating myself. now i put my best friend above who i'm dating regardless because when the relationship is over i know she will always be there. takes a while to get to that point and makes some girls jealous but thats my best friend and anyone who doesn't get that doesn't need to date me.