Am i being to nice???? honestly?

I know that it's tough but you can't ask your boyfriend to quit his job. I don't know his or your situation entirely, but it wouldn't take a whole lot to know that he needs this money for you and him whether it's now or in the future. He's doing this because he has to, not because he wants to. My best advice for you would be to try your hardest to support him and as you said, enjoy his days off.