Saturday, June 25, 2011

Allowed to see foster parent(s)?

She is going to be 18 in a few months. When she turns 18 then she can do what ever she wants to do. Her adoptive mother will have no say in who she can see and who she cant see. So really its up to her whether or not she wants to talk to you or your grandma.

What makes you people think that the Heat can beat the Celtics in the playoffs?

They can't. When the Shaq returns, and he begins to have a 3-man rotation of him/Nenad/Jermaine the celtics will be much stronger down low. Also, don't forget we have Davis, Green, and Garnett who are tall and big too. The Celtics will step it up in the playoffs, they finished 4th seed last year but made it to the finals.. They are hungry for a title. Celtics over Heat 4-2 plain and simple.

Was Danny Ainge Drinking when he made the trade?

I think it was a horrible, horrible trade. Luckily, I hate the Celtics so it worked out well for the teams I like.

I'm 13 I've hit puberty but my doesn't contract fully when hard.?

My uncircised opens when flaccid but not when erect. It opens half way then starts to hurt. How can I make it better without circisioin?

I dont know what to do about my husbands behavior towards me ;(?

He avoids me, ignores me, we can be in the same room or sleeping in the same bed like the other doesnt exist. It totally sux! We got married 2 1/2 years ago. Were always in love. We had a baby and I gained some weight. His sister was recently at our place and she 120 pounds, he (proly jokingly) said he wants me to be 120 (shes 5'3 im 5'7) so after stupid comments like that I finally blew up and told him that his comments hurt me and that he should stop comparing me to his sisters (they r single no kids) and that maybe he should have married one of them! The next day I said I was sorry but that didnt help. Its been like that for 4 days now. And im not huge or anything just weigh a bit more than I used to. Help ? how do I get him back ?

My family is not supportive of my vegetarianism. What can I do to keep me motivated?

I live with my father and brother, who are both very big meat eaters. They always make meat based dishes for dinner and even though they KNOW I dislike meat and have been avoiding meat for quite a while now, they still ignore this and make meat, which I cannot eat. Since we only really have staple foods in the house, I either end up eating nothing or having something not very tasteful. Any motivation I once had is now rapidly fading, what can I do?

Can't sleep... Help me please!?

I started talking to this dude, he had broken up with his gf who had cheated on him 2ice with his bff. He went back to her. Then, while talking about it, it turned out that we both liked each other so he left her. I got super attached to him in the last month or so, and a week ago we had . Now he's acting pretty much as a f***ing jerk. We even had plans of moving in together... Now i don't know what the hell he's thinking or why the f*** he's acting like that... I'm getting pretty tired of putting up with his crap, but im willing to keep trying if there's actually a hope to get our relationship working again... Is there? And if it isn't, how should i tell him? I don't wanna b the same as him, i really wouldn't wanna hurt him

How can I get over the one I love?

I went through something similar, just because you love her doesn't mean that she is good for you. Try to make friends with people that she doesn't know that way you don't run into her all the time. It sounds like you need to move on

Why do ppl think the east is wide open now ?BQ?

People think the East is wide open now because before all of these trades the Celtics, Heat, Bulls and Magic were all contenders and even the Hawks have two all-stars. Now the Knicks have 2 all-star starters as a 6 seed. How is this conference not wide open? The Celtics are a very good team but they aren't just going to sweep through everybody.

What song goes like....?

It'll be kinda hard to help me with this one cuz they only lyrics i remember are yellow lamborghini and it's obviously a rap song, just came out, and it sounds like either YG or Jermaine dupri singing it. It's really bothering me. HEELLLPP!

"people always leave.." :( :( please answer anyone?

became friends with this guy blake back in december. We became really good friends and pretty close. We eventually began to like eachother alot as more than friends. We had alot of amazing times together and the way he viewed things and just life in general had such a big impact on me. We went to prom together which was probably the best night of my life and after that we became really close with eachother. But he had had plans to leave and go up to school for 3 months and he already left about 2 weeks ago and i miss him so much. I didnt know it was gonna be this hard and i didnt realize how much he meant to me until he was gone..the night before he left he bought me dinner and cuddled with me and held my hand and kissed me. And then he left the next day. its only been 2 weeks but it feels so much longer and he doesnt come back home until august. I have no way of talking to him because he doesnt have a cell phone. So i have no idea how hes doing and i dont know what to think..I dont know if i should wait for him or just move on cause this hurts so much to just stay here without knowing what to do. Im afraid he's forgotten about me or he just doesn't care. I miss him so much and nothing is the same without him around. My best friend told me today that he's liked me ever since the start when me and him met but he was too afraid of getting hurt to say anything and he didnt want to start anything since he knew he was leaving but me and him just got close with eachother anyway..:( and she said that he always looked at me in a special way and i had always had people tell me that blake thought i was so beautiful but i didnt think there was anymore to it. what should i do? I just found out today that me and my friends are going up to see him on june 15th and im excited but nervous....://// i just wish i knew if he was thinking about me too..Im having a really hard time with him gone. I dont even know what im waiting for anymore. We are both 16.

How should I handle my boyfriend of over a year living with me and I support him?

I date a younger man. He's 25 and I am 39. We dated for 6 months and then he had some problems with his current living arrangement and moved in unexpectedly with me. I have a nice home, that I share with my son. At first the arrangement was nice. I didn't have to coordinate our time together during time my son was with his father. My boyfriend had a job then, but didn't contribute towards bills, and I wasn't sure how to address this with him since we never actually discussed living together before it happened, but I was sure at some point he'd start. Well, he didn't. He quit his job a few months after moving in and said he was going to try to start his own business. I tried to be supportive, but it's hard when I don't get any help from him financially and I feel taken advantage of. I have paid all the bills entirely since he moved in 9 months ago. He doesn't buy groceries. He has helped recently with a house project; he contributed labor and a small part of material expense from his pocket. He gets by paying his bills by luck really. I've talked to him about the problem both before and after he quit his *real* job. He said he didn't know he should help because I didn't ask. Since this initial talk, he still hasn't helped financially though. I'm not really sure what to do at this point. I could really use the help financially (I get by, but I struggle). I feel like he eats here, sleeps here, and while he takes me out to dinner, other than that he has it pretty easy. I'm naturally starting to feel resentful. Ive stopped talking to him about the problem because he says I make him feel like a piece of **** and like he doesn't do anything right. I asked him several times about looking for real work (because I would think he'd want to pay his bills; i don't pay anything that is his) and he said he doesn't want to work for someone else. I told him neither do i, but that's the reality. He has to make money to cover his gas, car payment, insurance and cell. That's it. I have to meet those things, plus all the living expenses (mortgage, utilities, upkeep, groceries, etc). Is this hopeless?

Should I feel guilty about breaking up with him?

His parents have called me names, he has done many hurtful things like, not respecting me, always threatening to kick me out or get a restraining order, abusing me, not being supportive of my career, trying to sabotage my success, doesn't treat my like a girlfriend or respect me, makes me his servant, expects mages, pedicures, haircuts, facials, me to wait on him hand and foot, doesn't want me to have time for myself, gets mad if i try to spend time with anyone else, spends all the holidays, special occions with his family and his family hates me and I barely seen them 3 times the whole time i have dated him. They hate me because i didn't come out and visit when they were over which i didn't want to see them in the first place. They were there to see their son and on the first day they were bossing me around and his parents were putting me and my dog down. So I stayed in my room the rest of the time they were here to avoid conflict. I can't seem to get past the fact his dad said i was a piece of ****. I don't even know his father. I just have a lot of hurt from this relationship and he doesn't let me move on.

What do the BNP think of Jermaine Pennant wanting to play for Ireland?

Considering the guy is black, and the BNP want to annex Ireland, how do they feel about a black guy playing for the Irish national team? His grandfather was apparently Irish, so he is a native of the lands in the BNP's view, but the colour of his skin is nearly as dark as Kilory Silk's and the BNP have a problem with people like Kilroy Silk and their dark coloured skin!

Who's better:Elton Brand or Jermaine O'neal in their primes?

I would take a prime Jermaine O'neal. Not only was he a six time all-star, but he was selected to the all-nba second team twice. Before his injuries, he was a great shot blocker/rebounder and had a post-up game compariable to Kevin Garnetts.

What am I doing with my life?

I live in the suburbs, I am 22 years old, and I am taking my last math cl to get my ociates. I have no idea what I want to get a major in, and I feel like my life is going no where. I lost my job to the economy, I still live at home, and I don't really feel like I have anyone to talk to. My friends are usually supportive and I have a great loving family, but I don't feel like I really connect with them. Yeah I love my family, but I don't feel as close to them as they might be to me. I should have at least an idea of what I want to do with the rest of my life, but I'm so far off path. I don't really know what to say, I want to know where to go, but I am so lost. All of the answers that have been fed to me while I was growing up just don't cut it anymore. I've never really felt at home. Maybe I was meant to be a loner. If that is true I at least want to know where I am suppose to go. I'm just going to end up taking some stupid major that I don't even care about, and work my *** off to get a job that I will hate. It just seems like I was meant to do so much more, and somewhere I failed.

Friday, June 24, 2011

1990's vs 2000's NBA what 10 year period was better?

1990s by far. I grew up on the Bulls dynasty. That was the golden era of basketball, besides the 80s.

I need to find a proper bodysuit?

I don't think that you can't have a bra. If the director tells you that tell her that your not flat chested. at a 32 D you need a bra and a sports bra.

Why does it hurt so much to see him with her?

Now I know I'm gonna sound ridiculous, but every time I see my former crush (I had a HUGE crush on him) with my "friend" (We were great friends at the time I told her I really, really, really liked him) it stings, or just hurts a lot and I feel miserable with my life at the current moment - because I feel their love growing. I can sense it from a mile away. I haven't fully accepted their relationship, maybe I have.. but why did I spend days wondering why I wasn't the chosen one or why I'm never the lucky girl - the girl who got the guy. I still can't take them being together, because it hurts me too much. It has gotten so bad that I even got to the point where I try to avoid seeing them on facebook chat whenever either of them is on. What can I do to stop worrying about them, and meet a guy who will make me the lucky girl?

How can I lose weight, fast?

I am a 17 year old. I weigh 105 pounds at 5'1 I want to lose at least ten pounds so i can look better in jeans and clothes in general. I do not want to starve myself. I started my diet yesterday. I did 150 crunches and 2 hours of cardio. Yesterday I ate rice and chicken, 4 perogies, a granola bar and half a bottle of gatorade. Today I had around 30 minutes of cardio, and didn't do any crunches because my stomach hurt too much. Anyways, what I ate was sushi, rice and chicken and 5 wheat thins and one chocolate bar :| But I burned it off immediately. I want to know if what I am doing is right? Because I really really really need to lose these extra pounds.

Who would win in a fight Jermaine O neal or Lebron?

im going with J.O i think he would give Lebron the hands Lebrons not a goon like his mom...his moms straight trashy anyways who u goin with

Do you support biracial relationships?

sure, I don't see what's wrong with them. I mean should I not marry someone because their eyes are green and mine are brown?

Whats the difference between a supportive friend and someone who loves you.?

There is a guy I really like but I can't decide if he likes or loves me as he is naturally supportive and kind. I really need help because I'm starting to have feelings for him and don't want my heart broken again.

I feel like dying.... Help me please.?

My life is so horrible. when i was in 3rd grade my dad suffered from a heart attack. after a couple of month he kinda recovered. When he was about to go out of the hospital i was so happy. But right before the day he was suppose to leave, he had a coma. I was so sad. Now only once in a while he can remember me. Not all the time. When i visit him sometimes he can't talk. But just look at me. About 6 years p and people at school tease me because i act gay. Its not my fault I was raised by my mom so I adapted to her "actions". Plus my mom job pays her so few money and my mom got to constantly borrow money in order for us to live. We can barely pay for a 1 bed room apartment and food... I'm not even sure how will I go to college. Even that I do not think we can make it that far without me being homeless... I am stressing out and depressed. I have to move 3 times switching school in 1 year. I am dying inside to make new friends but leave old friends behind. Sure I have my friends but they're ALL moving next month. Literally all of them. So i will be left with no friends. Those are the only people that would be friendly with me. All the other tease me and hate me... I am doing good in school but with this much on me, My grades are starting to drop from straight As to B- and Ds. My mom is sometimes supportive but she threaten me. For example if i don't get an A in all my cles she would kick me out. I love her dearly but sometimes my mom goes to far and make me hurt.. I'm surprised I'm not emo yet. I told her one day I will graduate from college and support my mom.. but in this condition.. I have no hope. I want to have hope but I can't... I don't feel like talking to anyone because i tried that before and it worked but then the depression came back. If i told my mom everything i said she would be depressed. Sometimes my mom says she would die because her life is so horrible and that she can't support me makes me want to kill meself right then and there.... I even held a knife agenist me but my grandparents stopped me... I completely lost faith. I prayed to God and asked for his help.. But knowing that here on earth our work must truely be our own. I have to improve it. But once again.. I have no hope. I just want this terrible nightmare to end.

New tattoo on calf....?

Nearly a week ago I got a tatt on my calf and now my upper leg (mustle) hurts. I don't know if it has anything to do with the tatt, but I don't think the tatt is infected. there is no puss coming from it and I'm not fevering but the tatt is still a bit red. (In one specific area) I believe the red is just basic skin irritation. I've been using a&d ointment on it and wash with dial soap. (Anti-bacterial, non-scented). My question is; is it normal for the red to still be in the tatt even though its scabbing and flaking? And about my upper leg mustle to hurt. I will picl best answer.

How do I help him make up his mind?

My ex and I are friends after we broke up. He seems like he still wants to be with me whether as a bf or a friend (jealous of other guys, hurt when he sees me with other guys, long conversations whenever we text/IM, staring at me, and always reminiscing and bringing up inside jokes when we talk). However after being "hot" for a while he will pull away and go "cold" for a few days then he will always come back. We have been through a lot since we broke up last Dec. and he still wants to be friends after a mive fight we had that lead to us not talking for over 2 months. How can I help him make up his mind on what he wants. He seems to be torn between friends, dating, and not talking (probably because he pulls away after we start getting close again. How can I help him decide? Or at least give him an idea of what he wants?

I haven't seen my son in almost 4 years. do i have rights? i'm 22 and live w/ my parents.?

he will soon be 4. when the baby was born my parents convinced me to get a lawyer to seek visitation and maybe joint custody. my son's mother, my then gf and i had broken up. i'll admit, i was a pot head and i still smoke and drink from time to time. well, my then gf got a lawyer and the judge ordered me to pay 400 a month child support and made me have supervised visitation from my weed smoking. i didn't pay the child support. it was too high and the supervised visitations were such a hastle. my ex's parents were real son of a b1+ches. i just stopped going for visits. my ex's parents have pretty much been raising my son. they're like his parents really. well, a buddy of mine told me that my ex gf has a bad drug issue.in fact, her parents put her in rehab. the cps placed my son with the grand parents. well, the human services is on my *** about child support, so i called the cps and asked them if i could have the baby. they told me no, because he's been with his grand parents all this time, they've raised him and told me that i'd have to get a lawyer... about 5 months ago my ex gf's mother contacted me and told me that my son's mom was doing drugs real bad and was with a really bad guy. basically, she wanted to know if maybe them and me could maybe get some sort of joint custody of the baby and force the daughter to leave this bad guy and go to rehab. well, i stopped communicating with her until recently when i found out that my ex is in rehab. i contaced cps, but they won't let me have my son. do i have rights? i owe like thousands in child support. with that hurt me? can i use my ex's mom's messages to me against her if i take them to court? what's my chances here? my ex's mom contacted me and told me that if i would sign my rights away that they will pay the state and they will wipe the slate of the 25k i owe in back child support payments to my ex and my son..she told me that i should have gotten back with her when she first contacted me, but now it's too late and they don't want me around the baby. what should i do? thanks

What helps a girls stomach pain after she has an and what causes the pain?

The main cause is that a lot of your blood leaves major organs, such as the brain and digestive system and goes to your . It also could be the strain of the muscles contracting during the . I would suggest trying a different position that would be more comfortable.

What to do about a hyperextended knee?

i seriously hyper-extended my knee i was playing soccer and i fell and when i tried to get back up really fast idk what happened but my right knee flew backwards really fast and hard basically with all my weight because ii was trying to stand up. and that was yesterday and it still hurts like crazy! i can barley stand on it and i can bend it a little but bending it alot hurts like crazy. the outside of the knee hurts the most. when i stand my knees normally go backwards but that knee is just straight and it feels weak. ive tried RICE but hasnt worked yet. what should i do???

Buy or Sell: OKC needed perkins more than Celtics?

Celtics have already has tough big men, Jermaine is expected to come back, Shaq just lost 30 pounds and is looking good for the playoffs

The song "Torture" by The Jacksons. What does this song sound like?

To me, this song sounds like "Beat It" by Michael Jackson and "Somebody's Watching Me" by Rockwell, Michael and Jermaine Jackson. What does this song sound like to you?

Why do women like bad boys, yet complain when they abuse them?

So women think it's fine for their "bad boy" boyfriend to abuse and hurt others, but as soon as he turns on her she cries victim? Hypocrisy?

I'm getting an inner conch piercing tomorrow?

When I got mine done it hurt pretty bad, about 7 on a scale of 1 to 10. Oh and if your going to gage it, it CAN cause a loss of hearing.

Ladies: are you supportive of the liberal efforts to make degrading of women cool again?

You mean how the Republicans want to roll back women's issues 40 years, come on! palin and bachman are going to get the same as everyone else would running for president, nice job trying to convince yourself on that considering it has been liberals who have supported women's issues over the last 250 years.

Please help! back problems!?

please help, for the past few days i have been having minor pains in my upper right shoulder. but all of a sudden, it just starting hurting when i breathe in and out, my upper right chest hurts but not my arm. please help! my mom said it could just be a pinched nerve but it hurts really bad

Are there any instant home remedies for sensitive teeth?

I used these Crest Whitestrips on my teeth today and it made my teeth sensitive. It doesn't really hurt too much since I'm not eating anything cold, but it's still really uncomfortable. Is there anything that I might find in my house that could help until the sensitivity goes away?

Micro Loop Hair extensions...?

Any extensions are uncomfortable for a few days or so, because when you get them put in, it tugs the hair roots, but this will p over a few days once they "settle in"..so it doesn't hurt, just a bit uncomfortable. On a plus note you have chosen extensions that won't cause too much damage to your hair. Enjoy your long locks!, and make sure you care for them properly so they last and look fab.

I need advice on my ex .. ?

My ex n I broke up a year ago and the only strings attached is our son he Cums and visits every once in a while he lives 3 hours away we argue all the time bcuz he's so jelouse and insecure cuz of our age difference he's 40 and I'm 22 .. Yeah I hate that fact now .. I can't text around him he don't like it .. I'm really tired of him he hurts my feelings all the time and the only reason I call him to *** over is so he can give my son n I extra money he does give me 500 a month but who makes it by with that ? I can't.. at this point I am jobless but in school becoming a medical t. What do i do should I tell him to kick rocks and leave me alone for good or should I keep puting up with his bs till I finish school ?

Why did Jermaine Jones switch to the US?

I know his father was an American soldier stationed in Germany. I know he was born in Germany. He did spend time as a child in the United States. So why the change? Did he feel like he was more American than German? If so then why didn't he play for the US in the first place? I would just like to know what he said the reason was. Or did he just think he would have a better chance of playing for the US then Germany?

How to save a relationship that is about to fall apart?

then just push your differences apart and just chill! like hang out the whole day or week! wish u the best goodluck!!

My exboyfriend, who is dating someone else, just kissed me. What do I do?

We were dating for 3 years and he dumped me after a lot of urging from his parents to find some one less "messed up". I had been d a few years ago and had suppressed the memory almost completely. We went farther than we should have physically 1 night, and it brought all of those aw full memories crashing back. They were disoriented though, and for the rest of the day I couldn't discern who had done what. For 24 hours, I was so confused, I actually thought he had done it. I was later told by a therapist that that can actually be pretty common in those situations. What wasn't common is that I pulled out of it relatively quick. Any way, his parents thought I must be some sort of psychotic bimbo and forbade him from seeing me.We did any way, in secret. He would keep struggling with his parents, trying to convince them there was nothing wrong with me, but to little avail. Eventually, he said we should just take a break, but we didn't. We would have multiple "breakups" ( where we planned to wait until we were graduated) but we would always end up back together within a few days. The last one though, turned out to be real, but I didn't know it. We still flirted and everything. One day I see him sitting next to a friend of mine at lunch. I didn't think much of it until he was always sitting by her. During his last period, I peeked in his locker, and he had taken out my love post-it note. I left a note for him asking if he still wanted to get back together. I ended up having to text him, and he became very nasty. He would say, for days, through paragraphs of texts what a pathetic looser I was. He ended up dumping me for RE ALS reals at midnight. Over text.All alone. The next morning,I am not making any of this up, I had to sit through a church service about all the promises in romantic relationships and their vitality, then right after that, we went in the store to buy brunch and they were playing our song on the radio. Also in store for that day, our cl was planning to go four wheeling at some cabins and spend a few nights up there as a senior party. I had to watch him and her cuddle while we watched movies, and hold on to each other while they rode. He pive aggressively bullied me. Not even a week later, we had prom. I had to leave for every slow song. By then I was in tough girl mode, so I didn't cry until I got home. During this time we had started to text. He was saying he wants to be friends. I told him, 2 times that that would be impossible, because I would have to see him with her, making the same promises he had told me, holding her the way he held me, etc. He started to bully me again, and my dad tried to help me block his number, but he would still get through. He would start off by being nice, so I would start texting him back.Any way, we hadn't had any contact since a week or two after graduation. Last night, at midnight, he texted me again asking what I was doing,and how things were going. We were able to talk a few things out, sort of. He wanted to meet up somewhere to talk face to face and give me some stuff I left at his house. We meet up and talk in his car. He admits to being a jerk, and unclear. But he still really wants to be friends. He says that it drives him crazy not to know whats happening with me all the time. I tell him how betrayed and hurt I am . He says it wouldn't have worked any way, because he is an "obedient " son. He says he is still dating her, and some how reasoned that it wasn't even a rebound. He says he didn't want to make me cry, and that's why he never made his intentions completely clear. He would also ask why I was being so mean, then he would stop and correct himself. He know admits to being the pathetic loser. He keeps trying to be comforting by hugging me and he even kissed me on the cheek. At the end though, when his parents called to ask where he was, he said he had to go soon. He asked again if we could please be friends, because he didn't want to lose me completely. I could barely even say the words,"probably not". He leaned in to hug me and he kept lingering. Then he kissed me on the cheek again, then turned my head and kissed me on the lips. It wasn't violent or anything, he just held me there for a few seconds. I yelled at him and asked why he had done that and he said,"because I'll never see you again". You don't even know how many times he's said that. What do I do with this guy? He seems genuinely confused, but I do know, that among his many traits, he is very manipulative. He even brags about it. I'm thinking of telling him that if he ever tries to talk to me again, I'll tell his girlfriend what he did...or something. I do still love him and he knows that. It's only been 2 months since the real breakup. I cannot play his games any more though, how do I get out? I'm to worn out to think for myself anymore.I know thisdes

So the Celtics basically gave up Perkins for nothing?

Troy Murphy was gonna get the Buyout either way and Celtics still could've went after him and kept Perkins and released Jermaine O'neal to make room for Troy Murphy. The Celtics front office was robbed with a 2 barrell Shotgun. Now they don't have a Legit center with size besides Shaq who can't stay healthy. Who agrees?

Am I doing the right thing?

For the past year I've devoted myself to a girl that ***** love me. When she decided to leave me for another guy, infreaked out and told her several mean things, then left. I also ditched my best friend because all he did was influence me to do drugs and drink, and he wasn't there for menafter the girl. Ever since then I've met great people, that don't do drugs and are very positive and supportive. I've decided to give my life to them because they made realize how my old friend and girl made me so depressed. But I keep questioning myself about what I did and if it was right. Was it ok for me to mOve on and kick those 2 in the dust?

Why is it so hard for a Black gay man to find an Asian man to date?

Hi, I am a black gay male who has been looking for quite some time now to find an Asian man to date. Why is it so hard for this to happen? Don't get me wrong, I have met a lot of Asian men but rarely are they attracted to black men. Why is that? They seem to always go for white men? I am so puzzled by this cause I think Asian men are the nicest guys in the world. Every Asian guy I know I have a special relationship with but they refuse to have a dating relationship with Black guys. I am so hurt by this cause I really would like to experience a dating relationship with an Asian guy. Am I doing something wrong?

If you had the financial privilege of promoting one of these 5 fighters careers who would you pick and why?

Interesting question, I would choose Pavlik,he has the most mainstream appeal for a number of reasons.Pavlik has an entertaining style that is easy to market to the casual fan.The fact that he is white helps a lot also.I know it's terrible to say but it is true.Pavlik is a good american white fighter and that sells tickets.Just before Pavlik checked into rehab he was a former middleweight champion and only had two losses.I would clean him up and get a real trainer to teach him some new techniques.The trainer he has now has taken him as far as he is going to go.Getting Pavlik a top trainer would help him and probably refresh him as well.Kelly has good power and has the ability to knock his opponents out.The other things he has that you can teach is heart and a good chin.He may have trouble making middleweight but with all the talent at super middleweight he would have some very intriguing fights that would draw very well.

What could this mean?

I met up with my ex boyfriends friend on friday i have met him before but i was with my boyfriend at the time and when i first met him i really liked him. Anyways when me and my ex broke up he was supportive towards me and i really valued that. Anyways the other day when we met up i saw a lovely person we greeted with a hug then we walked round talkking loads and getting to know each other. We went to the park sat down and was generally talking. Then we went back to his which was great we went upstairs had a drink and things nearly went further however they didnt. It was nice laying there with him. He was saying to me how gorgoeus and hot i look he said since he met me and then stopped talking. Then we went to play football we had loads off fun and we sat down why he had a fag and was talking. I sat on him a few times in a playful way and he didnt seem to mind. What could this mean could he have feelings for me? he is 17 nearly

Does my best guy friend like me?

My best guy friend and I live in different states but he texts me EVERY DAY, often up to 100 times back and forth in one day. We have been intimate and he has come to visit me several times but we remain "friends". We talk about everything under the sun and he has told me many times that I will be a great mother and has even said that he thought we might end up together. There have been a few boyfriends over the almost 3 years since I moved away and he has been supportive, positive and unbiased toward them so it makes me think he may not be that interested? Yet he still texts me every day, even if I do not respond sometimes. He has literally text me 99% of the 3 years we haven't lived in the same state and usually always sends me a "good morning" and "sweet dreams" text daily. He is handsome, very smart, driven and successful and has girls lined around the block to date him so he is definitely not desperate. I'd like opinions of as to what you think he is thinking. Thanks!

Thursday, June 23, 2011

FIDM help or advice.?

well i might be attending FIDM in the fall. I was going to start off at the orange county campus because its closer to my city. I live in corona. I had an interview with my admissions advisor yesterday and my mom was very supportive with my decision. Now this morning my mom comes to me and says....how are u getting there. uhm ill drive. She said if she doesnt wanna drive to orange county what makes me think that i would want to. She said traffic is the main issue and my parents are probably not willing to pay for housing because im close to home. She's telling me that i will have to find a different school that offers my major. But i really dont want to do that. What should i do

My daughters in love with a senior?

My daughter is a freshmen and her boyfriend is a senior. He is the nicest guy, and so cute! I just dont know how to be supportive towards the age difference? I love their relationship but I don't want my daughter to get hurt because it probably won't last...he'll go off to collage and she'll finish high school. How do I explain this to my daughter?

Is my wrist sprained or something else?

Ok so here's the deal, I fell over in indoor soccer a couple of times this afternoon (about 4hours ago) and my wrist hurts under the thumb and under my palm, it's a constant aching pain that absolutely kills. I have bruising on the top of my hand, redness under my palm and my wrist is warm to the touch. It also hurt more when I bend or flex my fingers or make a fist or when I turn it. What have I done? Do I need to see a doctor?

My ex girlfriend won't touch my....?

heart. She broke up with me, then she tried to contact me a lot. I didnt respond because I was trying to heal. Then once i gave in and replied, she wouldnt respond. I was very good to her. I was emotionally supportive, a great companion, and very reliable. I helped her pay of high interest debt and brought her on a few long vacations internationally. She doesnt make much money and had to work less while we were gone. She got an apartment that was a bit out of her price range. Now she says i screwed her life. Why would she say this? What is she thinking? Similar expiriences? I always went above and beyond...I dont understand her.

What age to become a great rider? Unrealistic goal?

YOU ARE NEVER TO OLD TO BECOME A GREAT RIDER!!! I have a really good friend who started out at nothing and have come up to Mc clay level. All it takes is dedication and practice and a LOVE for what you are doing. And riding is an amazing way to relieve stress and work together as a team with an animal that will become your best friend. My horse is my best friend and has been for a long time!! Trust me you don't have to start young to become great! Trust me it definitely is not unrealistic!! GOOD LUCK!

Pregnant Girlfriend all of a sudden not sure how she feels about me?

Honestly it really could be hormones. Some women get them really bad and will hate someone and love them constantly. It doesn't mean that she doesn't love you she is probably just feeling strange. After about 12 weeks the baby starts using it's own hormones and doesn't need to use the mothers as much so she may start to feel better and more normal so she may start acting different. I will point out that you have only been together 5 months so give it time. Be there for her and let her know you want and love this baby and her. Pregnancy is hard and it effects so much in a woman so all you can do is be patient. Good luck

Am i being to nice???? honestly?

I know that it's tough but you can't ask your boyfriend to quit his job. I don't know his or your situation entirely, but it wouldn't take a whole lot to know that he needs this money for you and him whether it's now or in the future. He's doing this because he has to, not because he wants to. My best advice for you would be to try your hardest to support him and as you said, enjoy his days off.

Will my ex Virgo come back?

Hi im a taurus girl and my ex is a virgo male, we dated for a while and he ended it, but we were always on and off, he would leave, then come back etc etc..now he has cut me off completely with no reasoning, he did not waste any time and now is back with his obsessed ex that will and does anything for him, initially he left her for me but he always told me they had nothing in common and what him and her had was not real. we spoke about alot and shared alot and for him that is mive as he is a closed book, he even told me numerous times that he is set on me and that he would be devastated if we didnt work out. i have had 2 different tarot card readers tell me that he will be back, i wrote him a letter to say thanks for pretty much hurting me and because of the hurt i am now emotionally stronger and wiser as i held back alot when we were together, i made the mistake of being too emotional with him with situations that was happenin in my life at the time. He has big trust issues with women as "women scare him" i know my question sounds stupid but will he back?..i have no idea how the virgo man thinks and works. :)

Heat & Bulls ECF??????

Heat vs Bulls ECF would be great but somebody's got to get past the Celtics. I know the Celtics don't have Perkins but they shouldn't be counted out especially with the playoff experience they bring and they will be a tough out in the East.

Lesbian best friend has changed beyond recognition?

That must be really hard I'm sry :( I wouldn't know what to do either. But if she really is I think. Eventually you'll find a guy & he'll become your best friend!

Doctors and belly on piercings?

Absolutely no. You'll be 18. An adult! He has no right to tell anyone, including your parents, your personal business, especially about your body! & it's not like he's gonna call to get you introuble? lol!

Are the Celtics a tougher match up for the Heat than the Bulls are?

Bulls are a good defensive team, but so was Boston. I believe Miami had it's toughest matchup with Boston and that Chicago would be a lesser threat, considering they only have Rose to worry about, saying this, the Heat should win this series

I am involved in some witchcraft and I am also with my parrents a catholic!?

i know being a wicca seems cool now but later on bad things can come with it.. things will follow you and you will wish u never messed with that stuff

What is Danny Ainge smoking and can I have some? Trade Perkins and Robinson for Jeff Green? Who?

Boston's great three-year run has been anchored by great defense. All year Boston fans have been claiming that if Perkins had been healthy in Game 7, they would have won the championship. Now they trade Perkins so that Jermaine O'Neal can have room to dominate??? Shaq, using a cane?

What are his motives? your opinions?

so complicated guy, having relationship with the kind of guy is the worst, how can he understand other that he dont undestand himself? just stay away from him and your life will be better

Are the celtics better this year than they were in 2010?

I'm #TeamCeltics and all tt . . They were muchhh better last year ! I jus dnt kno what happened this year ? Tradess . . Wack a** people comin on over . . If Shaq was as good as he was years back, It'll be alright but his big a** getting injured everytime. And instead of tradin Perk and Nate, them dumb a**es shoulda traded Marquis Daniels wack a** . . Other than that . . I'm dwn for my Celtics :^)

Would my facebook still be blocked, if i wen't on it at the library?

Yes it would and you are ranting. We dont want to know all the bitter details of the father/son relationship you have. Sounds dreadful.

I don't know what's wrong with me??? Is it tampons or an effection?? ?

I got my period and I used a tampon like I always been doing for the past years. But for some reason I have this huge bump on my left lip of my vigina. I don't know how I got it. I got it before where I pushed on it a d blood just came out like it was left overs from my period and I felt fine after but this time it hurts really bad. I did the same thing like I did last time and no blood came out just clear water stuff or what ever u want to say it is and like tissue peaces. I'm kinda freaking out. I don't know if it's because of the tampons or it I have an effection down there. All I know it hurts bad now and I still have it. It's smaller but it's still there. My boyfriend said I should go to the doctors but I have no health insurance. If some can help me to let me know what it could be please do tell me. In the mean time I'll start looking for a clinic to go to that can help.

How many NBA players who came straight from highschool were complete failures?

Shawn Kemp had a good start to his career but after he left Seattle he was never the same just a washed up addict after that.

Bullied about weight? Need help!?

So I'm 15. Currently on summer before Sopre year. I have some issues... mainly involving my self esteem. I know it sounds weird because I have self confidence, like I'm outgoing with my friends and dance team and stuff like that but when it comes to guys and new friends, that's a whole other story. I was bullied constantly from 3rd grade until today about my weight. No I'm not fat, in fact, I'm the opposite. I'm super skinny. The boys would always say "here comes the walking stick" or "she's anorexic" (I'm not, don't worry). At first I would go home and cry to my mum and she would try her best to comfort me but the pain still hurt like knives in my gut. Through middle school I acted like it didn't bother me, the bullying or remarks about my skinniness. But its just something I have always been self conscious about and people just keep pointing it out. Within the last month a guy whispered to my friend, "Feed Olivia" and then I cracked. I can't take all these remarks from people, especially boys, the ones who I am trying to build relationships with, friendships and romance. I seriously don't know how much more of this I can take. I have always been naturally skinny and I just broke 100 lbs. a couple of months ago. My question is how can I heal my wounds from childhood and teenage years from the bullying and become more comfortable with myself? DO NOT SAY I'M LUCKY FOR BEING SKINNY. I understand girls and boys starve themselves and do awful things to be like me but I have been through too much to want to stay like this.

Playoffs:If the Heat use this lineup against the Celtics can the they put up a big fight?

idc about the lineup. It's how coach Spo runs the plays with them. They can't keep having Lebron on the outside and Wade playing hero ball and Bosh shooting long 2's or setting picks all the time. It really does all come down to how they set plays.

Poll: Should NBA Suspend Jermaine O'Neal for trying to hurt Lebron James?

Who else demands NBA , to suspend Jermaine O'Neal for rest of playoffs and likely fine him over 100,000 >:

Men Genital Area Mechanical Trimmer/Shaver?

ive only been trimming my pubes manually with a scissor.. is there something electric/mechanical i can use that wont hurt me? lol...

I can't take unpaid leave but need to take time off work. What should I do?

if they have told you they would rehire you, then that is basically the same as giving you leave of absence

Okay so i need answers fast please?

okay so um..... me and my friend were hanging out one night with her brother and her brothers friend and then around 1030 my friend got tired and went to bed and so i stayed up with her brother and her brothers friend and i don't no how it really happen but me and my friends brother friend started making out and then it happen the next night to and before this happen i dident really like him but i kinda do now but i don't really think he likes me......so like i don't really no what to do now and i don't want to be around him cause i don't want to get hurt if he is with another girl or if we start making out again so yah what should i do

Weird dreams ? what do they mean ?

i had two odd dreams last night. the first was that i got the lead in a big play and when i found out i got it, i told thhe most supportive person in my life, my mom. I told her and she didnt care at all. That was a weird dream cause my mom is always there for me and I was wondering what it meant. The secong dream was that I was home alone and my house was being broken into. I called the cops, scared out of my mind, but it was like they didnt care either. Actually the police didnt even end up coming. Both of these dreams freaked me out and I was jus wondering what they mean ?

What's a nice way to tell my boyfriend that he doesn't need Magnum condoms?

Just let him do in whatever manner he thinks.There is nothing to worry till you get pleasure. Be happy.

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Help me figure out what she really wants, thanks!?

she wants you and the other guy too, she can't make up her mind. when you see her, have another talk and tell her that she needs to figure out what she wants soon because you might not be available if she waits too long. sometimes a little shove like this can help an indecisive women make a decision

I HATE HIM!!! why do men do this??!!?

well there could be more behind what happened, maybe they just fell apart, these things happen. You have to realize in life there will be a few jerks, but I believe us women meet them so then we know what guys NOT to pick the next time, that way we find our "prince charming" so to speak.

Jermaine oneal or lamar odom?

jermaine was better when he was healthy. and as a pacer fan, that was a while ago. jermaine has been busted up for 5+ years. but anyways, they play different positions/styles and it is pretty hard to make direct comparisons because of that.

Should I look for my daughters father ?

I usually dont write any personal stuff, but today I really need some outside advice. I haven't spoken to my daughters father in 2yrs, my daughter is 2now he pays child support every month by court. If she asked for him, I was going to say he was dead. I prayed one day that god would tell me how he felt, does he think about her does he want to see her. So here comes my friend and tells me I should call him and ask if wants to see his daughter because 2yrs has ped. I mean if he really want to know about his daughter wouldn't he have looked for her? He's an xray technician and my mom and bro where at the hospital he works at because mom was sick and he did her ct scan, he could of ask for her then if he really cared, right? He can't say he doesn't have my number because a week before that I texted him by "accident" a picture of his almost 2yr old daughter and he never responses or called back. Am I wrong by not looking for him? I feel like I shouldn't have to look for him, he was the one who left. any way I am torn right now, should I contact him? Or should I forget about him? I am just scared if I call him he'll argue and reject her, or what if he does say yes and ends up hurting her? He never touched me but men are evil, I have all these what ifs in my head. Can someone please give their opinions, I am getting mixed answers from people, my mom bro and friend says yes, Sis and cousin say no? What should I do?

Who else agrees High School kids should be allowed in the NBA?

Its really ridiculous how the nba inserted the 1 year wait rule after high school. Kids in Europe play professional soccer when there 15! When your 18 you should be allowed to do whatever you want. Plus most of the all time greats came out of high school: Kobe, Tmac, Lebron, KG, Jermaine o neal. Anyone else agree? Plus what if the kid gets hurt in college GOODBYE CAREER

Best friend and crush problem?? please help!!?

your best friend is rotten because she knows you like him and she's flirting with him. either she isn't over him or she's just jealous of the relationship you guys could have so she's trying to sabotage you by flirting with her ex. if you like the guy, don't let her deter you. just up your game. that's all.

Am i unhealthly or have an eating disorder?

so, i have always been told im thin, some say im too thin, but i dont feel very thin at all, i want to lose some weight, but people say im so thin it could lead to me being addicted and have an eating disorder, for some reason i like the feeling of an empty stomach, and when i have something sweet or fatty, i feel guilty. i dont know if i want to lose weight, or if i want attention, i know that sounds really wrong, so only supportive answers, and i have abmi of 16 and im 14 and 5ft6.5

Can someone PLEASE help me? I am so confused and hurt :(?

I know what you mean and she will still show love to you cuz u two sound like ur friends she's not gonna b a jerk to u cuz she has a beau

VEGETARIANS: I need HELP! Not getting support from my "best friend"?

Just as religions, people feel a strong way at vegetarianism/vegan/raw food living vs eating meat. Me, personally, I eat meat. One of my best friends is a vegetarian. If she comes over I will serve vegetarian dishes. However, if I am having a get together and she is invited she is aware there will be meat served as well as vegetarian alternatives. I pick on her about her way of eating. She picks on me. We have a healthy friendship where we can joke about it. I imagine your friend might be questioning herself about how serious you are at such a commitment. I imagine she may also be hurt that you were living the lifestyle for a whole month and you kept it from her. if you want to continue this lifestyle, do so. Pay no mind to the flack that you'll hear. Once you prove how serious you are everyone will treat you with more respect.

"people always leave.." :(( please answer?

became friends with this guy blake back in december. We became really good friends and pretty close. We eventually began to like eachother alot as more than friends. We had alot of amazing times together and the way he viewed things and just life in general had such a big impact on me. We went to prom together which was probably the best night of my life and after that we became really close with eachother. But he had had plans to leave and go up to school for 3 months and he already left about 2 weeks ago and i miss him so much. I didnt know it was gonna be this hard and i didnt realize how much he meant to me until he was gone..the night before he left he bought me dinner and cuddled with me and held my hand and kissed me. And then he left the next day. its only been 2 weeks but it feels so much longer and he doesnt come back home until august. I have no way of talking to him because he doesnt have a cell phone. So i have no idea how hes doing and i dont know what to think..I dont know if i should wait for him or just move on cause this hurts so much to just stay here without knowing what to do. Im afraid he's forgotten about me or he just doesn't care. I miss him so much and nothing is the same without him around. My best friend told me today that he's liked me ever since the start when me and him met but he was too afraid of getting hurt to say anything and he didnt want to start anything since he knew he was leaving but me and him just got close with eachother anyway..:( and she said that he always looked at me in a special way and i had always had people tell me that blake thought i was so beautiful but i didnt think there was anymore to it. what should i do? I just found out today that me and my friends are going up to see him on june 15th and im excited but nervous....://// i just wish i knew if he was thinking about me too..Im having a really hard time with him gone. I dont even know what im waiting for anymore. We are both 16.

What is this emptiness I feel in my life?

I'm 18 and going off to college and all.. I'm a good student and I have some very dear friends and a supportive family... but I just feel so lost. I feel empty inside and kinda worthless. I've had some thoughts of suicide but I really don't think I'd dare to do it. I haven't gone through any break ups or deaths of loved ones, so I don't really know the root of my problem. I have alright self esteem it's a little low but it's gotten so much better through the years. But I feel like I am missing something in my life and it is driving me on the brink of insanity...

Jermaine O'neal is expected to come back tomorrow (thoughts)?

Hes a beast and hes actually in great shape now so it will definitely help our defense which is not at its best right now.

I have a knot on my head!? What should I do?

Its 5am and I just woke up and I feel this knot on my head. Its the size of a penny and doesn't hurt even when I touch it. Im very worried and scared because I didn't bump my head unless it was in my sleep but if I hit it that hard I would have woken up. Im 13 and live in georgia. I don't feel dizzy or anything like that. But please please please tell me if I might need to go to the doctor!

UTI? Bladder infection? What IS this?!?

So I've been having like a really uncomfortable feeling that has bladder-infection like symptoms... It's not painful and unbearable, it's just very uncomfortable...I keep feeling like I have to pee...And when I pee, it's fine until all the pee is out then it hurts to push out the last drops...I did have a couple of days ago, and the day after my bladder was kinda hurting and my pee was really really yellow and It smelled bad..Then It came to a point where my bladder just gave up on me and I basically pissed myself by sitting the wrong way...It wasn't like a full bladder's-worth of pee, but it was like I had to pee so bad that it wouldn't hold. This happened twice, and each time I went to pee right after I leaked, and barely any pee came out. Its been a few days and I've been trying to flush it out with water and cranberry juice, and it started feeling a little better today, but then randomly tonight it started feeling uncomfortable again. Help!

Is this the England team (and squad) that never was ?

Where is Manchester United Players? Liverpool Reds (owned by Azzurri Man) playa will get out of that bunch here soon.

Middle name...help plz?

my best friend is pregnant with a boy and due in 5 weeks and doesn't have a middle name yet for jermaine last name is anderson

Is Shawn Merriman's carrer over!!!?

He was a probowler his first 3 year and after he got a cheap shot hit by the titans and he got hurt his carrer went down the drain, in his first 3 years he had i think 39.5 sacks and since then he has 4 sacks in 3 years even tho he missed the entire 08 and basically 010 season and those 4 sacks came in the 09 season and they came in back to back games against the Giants and i forgot the other team, so do you think he'll become an effected player again in the future or will he just become another guy in the NFL!!! What makes me mad is that i believe he was better that D.Ware!!! And you see what Ware is doing right now!!!

I am jealous of my friends, and I don't know what to do with myself?

I want to start off by admitting that I get this pain in my chest when I think about how great my friends have it. I feel so jealous and I hate myself for it. I hate the fact that it's my fault for not being great myself. I am the first to believe that "think of what you have and don't think about what you don't have". The thing is I do see what they have and see that I have nothing. I see that they have grown up with both there parents and siblings, while I have grown up with one parent and my sister. Oh yea I can't see my two brothers because of matters. It hurts when I see my best friend and his brother play and do stuff together, while I have an empty space beside me and in my heart because I can't play with my brothers. I hear stories of how there childhood was great and fun, while I think that I have never had a childhood. All my friends have jobs and there parents are doing great for themselves, while I have no job and we make barely nothing. I am so envious of there lives, I truly can't believe it. I am suppose to be going to university next year but that's a struggle all by itself. They all go out and have fun they invite me to come but I can't waste my money if I don't make the money. I don't know why I am writing this feeling sorry for myself but only if you knew. I hate where I am at right now in my life. There is no motivation to do anything, I think I am depressed but I don't really know for sure. I need to start getting my life back together but right now I just feel jealous, angry, frustrated a mix of emotions that I don't even know. My life is in my own hands and that's why its my fault. I am letting life beat me down and keep me there, you know. Well anyways I think I have stumbled on far enough but if you have something to say please write I want to hear from you. Please just say something anything. Thank you for reading thank you

Was Michael Jackson ever a Muslim?

I have so much respect toward Michael. But i need the truth. Because i know Jermaine is a Muslim but he says Michael liked the religion. I personally think Michael shared a love for the Lord God. And he was a mixture of Christian and Jahovah Witness. But i do want to know, did he believe in Jesus and that he already was born? Because he had said things about jesus when jesus was living. And he was talking about the bible. He had read his bible alot. Im just curious because i dont think someone like Michael Jackson could change religion especially because Michael says he believes in a higher source and thats Lord God. I dont think he would. But im a christian and i dont see what is different between jahovah witnesses and christians? Do they believe is jesus and that he died on the cross? I need some answers. Its been bothering me because I love Michael. Did God read his heart and except him in his paradise?

Does he like me or what?

Well we are just friends he is like my brother and lately he has started flirting with me like when we text he will always put a smiley face and says sweet things and we are going to camp together so he messages me on facebook and asked if he could sit by me on the way there and then he's you have my number right? And I'm like i don't Know and he's like ok if I give you my number will you text me and I'm like ok sure so I text him and that's where all the smiley faces come from and while texting him I asked who he likes and he said that he likes me a little and one of my friends and I'm like ok interesting and then I asked him what is it that he likes about me and guess what he said the perfect answer EVERYTHING! And then I saw him at church but we didn't talk at church so once I got home I texted him saying I saw you at church and he was like I know I saw you to and he hasn't been texting me like he normally would so I'm and it just happend Wednesday so did I say something wrong or something or does he just wanna be friend and not hurt me?

I need to name a female character for a story?

I think Cynthia is too feminine of a name for this character, same with Vanessa. And I wouldn't use Ashley if you're planning to use it on a different character. So how about the name Clare? Or Nicole.

What is the best sports bra?

I am looking for a good bra to provide support for cross-country running. I am a C cup, US dress size 0-2, and I am looking for a bra that is supportive and will not restrict breathing. Any recommendations? Thanks ladies

Getting my lip pierced!! ?

Right now im 12 years old nd I want a piercing so bad! My mom know that I want one but wont let me have one so I told her then il just do a home piercing but im really to scared to do that! I want to know how I can get it done and if it hurts??

Suicidal after friendship breakup?

My closest ever friend is breaking off the friendship, and it's almost definitely not salvageable. I'm feeling so suicidal right now, i just feel like there's no way i can face life unless i'm drunk, high or otherwise dead. It seems silly to get suicidal over, but i have literally nobody else now, and i'm SO hurt from how she has treated me it feels like the pain will never go away. I have depression to start with, she she just pushed me over the edge, and i'm on my second day of avoiding all liquids in an attempt to dehydrate myself to death. At the same time though i still want to live, it just seems impossible right now. Has anyone been through anything similar? thanks

R&P: Do we have to take our clothes off...?

I'll answer this when i can see the videos, which will when i can access the computer! So keep it openfor atleast 24 hours!

What piercing would suit me?

what piercing would suit me im thinking about getting my lip pierced but im not sure if it would suit me and i already have 8 piercings 1 left ear cartilage, 3 each earlobe and nose and how much do it hurt???

People always leave... :( help someone?

became friends with this guy blake back in december. We became really good friends and pretty close. We eventually began to like eachother alot as more than friends. We had alot of amazing times together and the way he viewed things and just life in general had such a big impact on me. We went to prom together which was probably the best night of my life and after that we became really close with eachother. But he had had plans to leave and go up to school for 3 months and he already left about 2 weeks ago and i miss him so much. I didnt know it was gonna be this hard and i didnt realize how much he meant to me until he was gone..the night before he left he bought me dinner and cuddled with me and held my hand and kissed me. And then he left the next day. its only been 2 weeks but it feels so much longer and he doesnt come back home until august. I have no way of talking to him because he doesnt have a cell phone. So i have no idea how hes doing and i dont know what to think..I dont know if i should wait for him or just move on cause this hurts so much to just stay here without knowing what to do. Im afraid he's forgotten about me or he just doesn't care. I miss him so much and nothing is the same without him around. My best friend told me today that he's liked me ever since the start when me and him met but he was too afraid of getting hurt to say anything and he didnt want to start anything since he knew he was leaving but me and him just got close with eachother anyway..:( and she said that he always looked at me in a special way and i had always had people tell me that blake thought i was so beautiful but i didnt think there was anymore to it. what should i do? I just found out today that me and my friends are going up to see him on june 15th and im excited but nervous....://// i just wish i knew if he was thinking about me too..Im having a really hard time with him gone. I dont even know what im waiting for anymore. We are both 16. Do i love him? that just sounds crazy though:/

Acrylic nails supposed to hurt?

i just got acrylic nails done today the last time i got them done was when i was 8 now im 15 going on 16 i just got a french tip so thats all the fake nail i got but they hurt and idk y are they supposed to ??

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Heat are just no match for the celtics just face it?

u no what i dont understand? why miami heat fans have to be so ey.not all if them i mean.just some of them.when the miami heat first got lebron and bosh alot of miami heat fans kept saying that celtics sucked compared to the heat and that they would get crushed when they versed eachother.but then in the first game they versed eachother,celtics creamed the heat.then alot of the miami heat fans said that celtics only won because of homecourt advantage and that the heat just needed a little bit more time to work together.then in the second game when these two teams met again and the celtics beat the heat by 5 points on miami heat's OWN HOMECOURT alot of the miami heat fans said that the celtics just got lucky and that they would show us what they were in the third and final time when they met this season. then when they versed eachother again for the third time this season and the celtics won again with shaq, jermaine o'neal, west, erden (the turkish guy) all injured alot of the miami heat fans said that the heat would get them in the playoffs and that the celtics won once again only because of homecourt advantage.believe it or not one guy even said that it means nothing if the celtics are 3-0 against the miami heat. they also said that the heat only lost because lebron james missed that last free throw which only proves that he just falls down when versing the celtics.see what i mean? but dont get me wrong. i an not trying to say that the heat suck or anything because they dont. they are actually my second favorite team in the nba tied with the chicago bulls.all im trying to say is that they are not as good as the boston celtics.i am saying this because just look at the lineups.rondo is better than all of the heat's pointguards put together.kevin garnett,glen davis,and the two o'neals are better than all of the miami heat big men.pierce and allen are really good but like alot of other people say they are not as good as wade and lebron.but then again ray allen is 5 times as good as wade and lebron put together when it comes to threes.and pierce is also no slouch either.and i wont even talk about the bench comparisons.but all of all these things there is one other thing that i did not mention which really gives boston a huge advantage when they verse the heat is the lack of skill that lebron james and chris bosh have when they r under pressure.kinda of like what caused the celtics to beat the heat in the last game those two teams played against eachother.the reason why i say chris bosh also has a lack of skill when under pressure is because he has missed alot of big shots including the missed LAYUP that could have tooken the raptors to the playoffs last year.so my whole point out of this paragraph is that although heat are really good they are not as good as the boston celtics and that u should not makeup stupid reasons for why one team beat ur favorite team.just take it up like a man.do u think im right?if not please tell me ur opionion.

My child just graduated from High School. Now he wants to join the Air Force, help?

airforce its great its like working on wall st tell to take the asvab and if he decides to be a police great job and experince when he gets out he can be a civilian police officeror border patrol

Love him but concerned about his intentions. Not getting any younger. Should I cut my losses?

He knows what he's doing. All men do. What you need to do is realize that it's been 7 years. 7 long years. And if he's just in it for the , that's the only reason he's staying. You need to be strong and tell him he needs to commit or you walk. There's plenty of ways to find another man who would love to start a family with you. Best of luck, keep an open mind and a strong heart :)

How do I know if I have concussion?

I bumped my head on the floor several hours ago n hurts so bad still. I threw up then again I chocked on my hair in my food. I feel weak but my mom wont take me2 the ER n im afraid to sleep:(

How many votes did each candidate receive, explain?

all 418 students voted in the election for cl president. of the three candidates, Jermaine received 3 times as many votes as Edward. Francis got 7 times as many votes as Edward.

What small exercise machine can i buy to work my whole body preferably my legs?

I need something small and please don't say the mini stepper i have one....hate it i need something that's more reliable and supportive, thanx :-)

How can I convince my parents to let me try horse riding?

I am a 13 year old girl and have never really rode a horse in my life. I am comfortable around horses and i have watched many youtube videos! =) My cousin rides horses and often tells me how much fun it is. I understand it is dangerous and all, but I really wish i could try it. It is very hard to get lessons though because I live in Edmonton AB and not in the country. I do SOOO many sports and my schedule is almost full. I am not looking for a life long riding stable, just 2 or 3 lessons. I haven't even told my parents i am interested yet, and i dont think that they would be very supportive. how can i ask them? and do you know of a good riding stable i could go to near edmonton or sherwood park that supplies the horses and tack? Thanks

15 and pregnant what should i do ?

Maybe consider adoption? I mean children do need a steady home. You two are both so young. You will need both parents support in this because they will be the ones helping. If you chose to keep the baby, its time to grow up fast. Your bf will have to get a job. You are no longer a teen and hopefully you graduate high school. It's not impossible, I've seen it done, but its VERY difficult.

This guy ask me out ....?

ok i it sounds perfectly normal on our first date we went out to watch a movie ok all running smooth then days p we've know been dating a month and he goes 'come on over to my house' i thought ok and the he say 'can finger u' i just say no and leave i was just hurt when i dated him he seemed normal

How can I tell my boyfriend to be more gentle?

Recently my boyfriend and I have gotten more intimate. Everytime (except for once) when he fingers me I bleed & it gets on his hand. I know its because he's a bit too rough. It does hurt when he does it & I'd really like for it to be, gentle & not to bleed 'cause its embering. We don't really talk about what we like so I don't know how to tell him he's too rough without being awkward..help?

Does he have feelings for me, or are we just friends?

I met up with my ex boyfriends friend on friday i have met him before but i was with my boyfriend at the time and when i first met him i really liked him. Anyways when me and my ex broke up he was supportive towards me and i really valued that. Anyways the other day when we met up i saw a lovely person we greeted with a hug then we walked round talkking loads and getting to know each other. We went to the park sat down and was generally talking. Then we went back to his which was great we went upstairs had a drink and things nearly went further however they didnt. It was nice laying there with him. He was saying to me how gorgoeus and hot i look he said since he met me and then stopped talking. Then we went to play football we had loads off fun and we sat down why he had a fag and was talking. I sat on him a few times in a playful way and he didnt seem to mind. What could this mean could he have feelings for me? he is 17 nearly

Is it appropriate to wear five inch heels to your own graduation?

No I honestly feel that those shoes would be fine. Its YOUR graduation and you should feel confident walking up to receive your diploma. CONGRATULATIONS GRADUATE! WORK THOSE HEELS!

How should I punish my kids?

I left my 3 kids alone for about an hour. I have 12 year old twins and a 10 year old boy. So while I was out I guess my 12 year old twins thought it would be cool to cut their little brothers hair. It looks awful and I don't really know what to do. I'm going to take my 10 year old son tomorrow to the barber shop so they can fix his hair. But what should I do to my 12 year old sons? I can't trust them alone anymore. How should I punish them?? Nothing like beating the kids or anything with hurting them.

Imma kill myself I hate dealing with all this ****!! I'm so ******* done!!!?

my parents r no help they don't know how much pain I been in for the past months!! One of my best friends have been really supportive bout this nd I really like how she actually cares but.nobody else does,I cry everyday after skewl I hate my life I know killing myself won't help anything but atleast it will stop..i been trying to be strong but the more I try more **** happens nd makes it worst so I'm done..

Im 15 and going to be a teen dad please help?!?

Okay well my girlfriend just found out she's pregnant a week or so again and our parents are both supportive. I have a few questions though. Even though the mother and I are in a relationship, we don't live together obviously, so do I get the baby on weekends or something? And do I pay child support even though im not even old enough to have a job? Will the baby get my last name or hers? I am just really confused and would really appreciate advice. I will be apart of this childs life it is my baby and im still the dad no matter how old I am. Advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Is wilshere the new Jermaine Jenas?

They said Jenas the new viera, Is Wilshere the new Jenas or is Jenas better because he can actually shoot?

How to handle this situation with my sister?

I didn't read it all. I read the first paragraph and the last. It seems like your mom misses you. And your sister just doesn't really want you there. You should have moved a little closer to your mom so you can visit her every weekend or so.

Feeling suicidal after the breakup of a friendship?

My closest ever friend is breaking off the friendship, and it's almost definitely not salvageable. I'm feeling so suicidal right now, i just feel like there's no way i can face life unless i'm drunk, high or otherwise dead. It seems silly to get suicidal over, but i have literally nobody else now, and i'm SO hurt from how she has treated me it feels like the pain will never go away. I have depression to start with, she she just pushed me over the edge, and i'm on my second day of avoiding all liquids in an attempt to dehydrate myself to death. At the same time though i still want to live, it just seems impossible right now. Has anyone been through anything similar? thanks

Why is my mom so un-supportive?

Ok well im a parent although mine is only 2 I can understand both sides because im still young myself (21 in july). I would suggest letting things roll off your back. When your 18 thats it, I walked out of my parents house 2 days after I turned 18 and into my own apartment. I went to college without their help and now im a chef at a nice restaurant in lexington kentucky. Save as much money as possible in the next 3 years and dont tell her what you plan to do. Working is the key and education really helps. Learn as much as you can and go to college. When she yells dont yell back just say ok, its tough at first but she will stop if you just agree with her. Whos gonna yell at someone who is agreeing with them?

How do you respond when people attack your uality?

Heterouals make their uality public every day. Talking about dates, engagements, weddings, girlfriends, boyfriends, husbands, wives, etc. But the moment we mention it, we are attacked. It's going to be hard for you in school until you get out and turn 18. The GSA will help and you need to do it for you and for all the gay/ kids after you. You can either ignore the nasty comments or you can let them know that you consider phobia a sin and walk away. In high school, it's probably better to ignore them or else there will be fights. You also should notify your counselors about the anti-gay bullying and ask them to do something about it. If you need to file a lawsuit later, you want it on record that you complained and the school did nothing. Because if it goes to court, the first question will be, "Why didn't you tell the school about it?" You want it "on record" that you complained and the school did nothing about it. Good luck and God bless you and give you strength.

Should the US play a 4-3-3 vs Spain and in the Gold Cup?

Should they play a 4-3-3 vs Spain with Dempsey and Donovan as the winger-forwards and Bradley, Edu and Jermaine Jones in the midfield? The forward could be someone like Agudelo and Wondo as a sub to play the target-forward. How does that sound?

My boyfriend broke up with me, and I want him back.. Help?

Ok Amber, u kinda helped me out so I'll try my best to help you out. well, i have to be honest so plz read till the end and do not get mad at what I'll say! I just know what I'm talking about cuz i was in kinda the same situation when i was a teenager. to me, he is your first crush. It is really hard to let go of the ones you love especially when you don't want it to happen. Also you kinda have low self-esteem and being with him would make you feel stronger. now that you lost him out of the blue, you feel lonely and with no emotional support. This is normal honey, what is going on here and why you feel all sick and throw up, is not because of him leaving you. it's because of you not believing in yourself and your future. If he only had told you that you are his best friend and had never told you that he loves you, then he never had and only used you for his stupid reasons. cuz when boys break up and do not give any particular reason why and just say it's me, not you, it means that they have never been into you! I'm sorry, but you have to know the reality and try to solve it. He will never come back to you cuz he didn't love you in the first place, so do not try to destroy yourself more. For me, my bf really loves me and i do love him in return, but for you, this relationship was just one way sadly. why you two shared a smoke? it is ridiculous! you act childish, smoking would not solve anything, it shows how insecure you are. Maybe if you change yourself and try to be the one that you really are, then he will come back to you. Become a good girl outside and inside, then all the boys will come your way even when you don't expect it. don't let peer pressure lead your life honey. Good luck! Wish you all the bests, btw, if you keep being like this, the next bf would do the same thing to you and break your heart, so just start working on yourself and become the one you've always dreamed to be with high self-confidence! :* :* JUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! ;)

My parents hurt my feelings?

Hello, I'm 13 this year. My parents hurt my feelings alot of times and they don't even know it. Whenever I do something, the would say hurtful things like, '' Go and die, we won't care about you! " etc... Whatever I do, they don't believe that I can do it. I want to be a singer but they wouldn't let. Not because of the talent etc... Because they don't believe that I can be a famous singer. They control my everything. What I wear, where am I, what was I doing now. They always say they hate me so much. They don't understand me. They do not know what I want. I feel hurt. I have no life. :(

What does it mean when he says?

So my bf was me and he has plenty of times before. But then while he was he asked me if it hurt. Why did he ask? Cuz he usually doesn't ask

My throat, ear & body hurts :(?

I was sick 2 1/2 weeks ago now my throat, left ear & some of my body hurts. It hurts to swallow, drink & eat! What can I do? I can't afford to be sick or even see my doctor plus I'm a work at home mom so I can't take days off!! Help

I just need to know that two people can end up together in the end (long sorry)?

I fell in love about a year ago and we were together for 8 months. Our relationship was strange to begin with. One month into the relationship I knew I was in love with him and I knew it wasn't lust because all we at that point was make out. And then two months into the relationship his dad ped away. I didn't know his dad but I still cried but for the pain I saw him go threw. It was then I knew I was with my true love because I knew if there was anything I could do to take his pain away I would do it without thinking. After his dad ped away I began spending lots of time with his family going to dinners and movies and just hanging out at there houses. I even went with his mom on an all day car ride to pick him up from a baseball camp about 12 hours away we were together about 5 and a half months at that point. Her family lives up there and I spent two days down there with them before we came with boyfriend in hand ha. Him and I slept in different rooms and still didn't have so I KNOW it wasn't lust. School started a week after we came home and it was all good we made love for the first time, we gave each other our virginity's and I don't regret it because I know it was making love and not just . Before we dated I watched his friends make fun of him because he told them he wouldn't ever make love unless it was ACTUALLY making love. until he found out he was moving with his mom up to her family 12 hours away. A 12 hour space between a young couple in love is a lot to put on a relationship that is also being tested by death. We cried and cried, we didn't know what to do we talked about us getting jobs and spending all of our money on plain tickets to see each other every months. But when He couldn't find a job where he was moving and I couldn't find a job here it was out of the question. My parents told me they wouldn't let me drive down by my self and his mom wouldn't let him drive down by his self. They wouldn't drive us every month or every other month. His mom and my parents both agreed we could see each other fall break christmas and 2 times during the summer. That made things difficult. We were willing to do the long distance when we knew we could see each other every month but 4 times out of the year wasn't fair. He cried and I said this isn't fair he explained it like feeling like we were being pulled apart like two peaces of paper glued together peaces of the paper will always be on the other. He then told me he wanted me to experience my last year of high school with my friends and be able to date and not be tied down to someone who isn't ever there. He told me if he didn't care about me he would go threw with long distance which would hurt me more then breaking up in the long run. He told me he feels deep in his gut that we will end up together one way or another but that he wants me to live life and not be taken down by a broken person. After that I kind of ignored him until about two weeks before he moved in April when he called me and something inside me just made me pick up for the first time sense we split! We hung out and kissed good by and now we talk practically every day. And we talk about seeing ether when he comes down sometime this summer to see his Grandparents. But I just can't help but feeling this feeling deep in my gut that him and I will end up eventually like as in marry and have a family and he still tells me the same sometimes. So do you think it is possible that to people who once fell completely and madly in love but were torn apart could end up together in the end?

Boyfriend too busy with baseball- feels like this relationship is going downhill?

My boyfriend and I are both upcoming Seniors at our high school. We've been together for 5 months and things lately just seem to be going downhill. We always fight, but we find a way to make things better after and lately we've argued about him spending time with me. We've only seen each other ONCE this summer so far and this was when he met my family. We communicate through text message and web camming, but every time I invite him to hang somewhere, he doesn't have the time to go anywhere with me because of baseball. We planned to go to the beach this Thursday, but he canceled on me because he has a game. Today he told me "What if I have a day off, but I just want to stay home and rest and not do anything?" Honestly, I thought he would want time with me on his days off because we only see each other like ONCE a week if I'm lucky this summer! I know I should be supportive of him, but once this baseball season ends, hes starting another league when school starts and that means NO MORE TIME TOGETHER. I don't know what to do. People say that if im important to him then he'll find time for me, and it seems like hes trying here and there, but we just never manage to find time. He says he loves me an that this is meant to be, an I love him too, but I don't know what to do when I can barely see him. Should i just tough it out through baseball season an be supportive or what? HELP PLEASE

R&P contacts (or others) would you like to hear some interesting news?

I'm really impressed with the tracks and I'm not surprised you won, your music really seems to manipulate the mood of the listener, while being very technical at the same time, and the alternating genres and structures is very fresh and interesting, and Red Lobster is great!

Would you go to bed if you had just discoverd your child was missing madeline mccann case?

they cant never go to bed again! and as the other person said, routine is important for young children, they have lost one child but still have two others.

My Boyfriend Wants To "Milk" Me , So He Says ?

Dump him. He is just playin' you. You are only 15, he is only 17. Dump him and get a boy who will respect you and your body. (After all, he's had other girlfriends. Plural.)

Monday, June 20, 2011

What makeup should this girl wear?

She's beautiful without makeup. But, If she insists, she could put on a little mascara and lightly colored eye shadow:)

If I tell doctors that I've been feeling suicidal for years and I can't deal with it anymore...?

Hey, everyone else does not have a glorious life. You just have to hold on and try to make things better for yourself. I am 25, I still live in my home town, I do not have my license or a car, I also work at a store and get only 9 dollars an hour. I have just gotten out of an abusive relationship and I don't have any friends. I am a loner. I will admit i do get depressed some times but part of me holds on. You have to hold on yourself. Life is not as bad as it seems. Please keep trying, at least for me. Start trying things. School, hobbies, or do out door activities. You every think that maybe god keeps you on earth because he wants you to accomplish something for your self. Maybe he wants you to give life a try at something. Yes he does take people who had left so many things behind and its a tragedy. Yet they had made a mark already and had live to their fullest of what they had. Please do something for you and keep fighting to survive.

How to be a supportive friend if your friend is depressed/cutting?

One thing you can do is tell them your always there to talk whenever they want and insure that you will keep their secrets. Try to do things with them, but only you and the other person because more than one person can become overwhelming. Maybe go on a walk or a quiet and calm place. You need to give the other person a reason to live and tell them how wheather they know it or not people love them and nobody would want to see them go.

One side of my jaw like REALLY hurts when I open my mouth?

stop opening your mouth until it feels better, your muscle might be tired, its like after chewing alot you can get a pain theree or when yawing with your mouth like full opened, it can really hurt you so try to let the joints there rest

Is it really over between us? Please...please help?

Tell him you know he is going through some tough times and you want to still be friends. Let him know that you will be there for him girlfriend or not and you can always start dating again later.

Parents and male teens: about teenage pregnancy?

Teens should NOT be having under the age 18. You can get STDs which includes HIV, Herpies, Aids, and more. Also some STDs can eventully Kill you! If you ever do have , do it safely, and if your planning to have kids, go to a doctor to make sure you dont have any types of STDs. You should also not have until you are confirm your relationship is firm and strong and be forever together and over 18 =P

Do you feel women should be supportive of their men, and let's just say all men exhibit masculine traits..?

I feel men and women should be supportive of each other wherever their aims are positive. For example I will support my husband psychologically and financially if he wants to give up the job he hates and go back to school - I will not support him in any way if he wants to give up the job he hates and start robbing banks.

Family issues: What should i do?

I'm a teen and i feel so depressed lately. So heres the story my mom was seeing this guy and i really disliked him. He was rude to me a number of times and my mom dragged(not literaly) me and my sister over to his house every holiday and i absolutely hated it. I told her on a number of times and he even threatened me to act like i was having fun. So i confronted him and my mom got really angry and threatened to send me to my dads house(but i dont wanna go). She made a deal with me that she wouldnt contact him and in return i would be a good kid. But she lied she asked me to get her phone and there was a text message from him. Tommorrow is his b'day and she lied to me she said she wasnt going anywhere and then she randomly gets a call from work to go to somewhere for the whole day and night which is on his bday. Sometimes i hear her on the phone with his friend which i would ume is contacting him i heard her talking about bday presents. She only likes him for his money. This is the 3rd boyfriend and she has already been propsed to twice after dad and her divorce. I dont know what to do i feel so depressed and the time and sometimes even think those unthinkable thoughts. Im pretty sure my brother hurts himself ive seen the scars and my sister is clueless and i dont wanna talk to anyone about it. Help!

How do I come out to my dad?

My mom and dad divorced a few months ago, and I stay with my dad. I came out to my mom a while ago, and she was totally accepting. I also live with my sister and cousin, and they both know and are very supportive. I am in a relationship and I hate hiding it from my dad. I really want him to know, but I have no clue what his position on ity is. I've tried to talk to him about politics and such, but we never get too far into it. SO, I really want to come out to him, but I have no clue what to say, when to say it, and what to do afterwards. ANYTHING helps

Is My Husband Having an Affair?

If this has been happening for a long time then its already time to find out. You'll have to try to find out yourself by looking at his things and even asking him. Two years is a very long time.

Is it really possible that he is so scared of the next steps in our relationship that he is going to push me?

completely out of his life?? Is he really going to let that happen? My boyfriend has always told me about his fears of taking the next steps. He says that he knows that he wants that with me and he says that he does see those things happening with me one day. However he recently took a job out of town two hours away. He said we will have to see me on the weekends and when we got married then my daughter and I will have to move there where he is. Then I agreed and now he is pushing me away even more. I am being as loving and as supportive as I can for him because I love him so much. He is ignoring my calls and pushing me away so bad. On email he finally responded by saying that he is going through personal issues and trying to work through them. He says that he knows I dont deserve it but and if I need to move on he understands but he is trying to deal with everything and he is sorry. I have done absolutely nothing wrong to him. I love him so very much. I am so very good to him and I have sat here for two months and tried to just wait for any kind of communication from him. Three weeks ago he sat on my couch and cried to me and said that he wished he could tell me when he would be ready for the next steps with me but he cant tell me why and he cant tell me why he cant tell me why. I told him I am not in a huge rush but that we needed to work towards our future together and he needs to want it just as bad as I do and work towards that goal. I just dont know because it is like nothing I do is good enough. Is it possible that he lets his fears get the best of him and he loses us and all the love we have together? I would do anything to make it right. Nothing is working.

Why did jermaine jones switch to the US?

I know his father was an American soldier stationed in Germany. I know he was born in Germany. He did spend time as a child in the United States. So why the change? Did he feel like he was more American than German? If so then why didn't he play for the US in the first place? I would just like to know what he said the reason was. Or did he just think he would have a better chance of playing for the US then Germany?

How can someone who doesnt even know his "favorite teams" starting line up from LAST year call some1 out?

"Well you cannot label someone a bandwagoner for not being able to name an inconsistent starting lineup". Yet he feels its ok to label someone a bandwagon fan because they didn't know KD isn't a rookie.. haha wth is wrong with this dude..

QPR want Joe Cole & Jermaine Jenas....?

Do you think Qpr can get these two players on loan or will Joe Cole & Jermaine Jenas want to go to Qpr?

Nba trade this offseason?

LOL that trade is useless for the Magic, if anything they'd take the Allen, KG. Rondo and a few picks for Howard/Arenas. Not that shtty trade you just put up.

How can I lose weight, fast?

I am a 17 year old. I weigh 105 pounds at 5'1 I want to lose at least ten pounds so i can look better in jeans and clothes in general. I do not want to starve myself. I started my diet yesterday. I did 150 situps and 2 hours of cardio. Yesterday I ate rice and chicken, 4 perogies, a granola bar and half a bottle of gatorade. Today I had around 30 minutes of cardio, and didn't do any situps because my stomach hurt too much. Anyways, what I ate was sushi, rice and chicken and 5 wheat thins and one chocolate bar :| But I burned it off immediately. I want to know if what I am doing is right? Because I really really really need to lose these extra pounds.

What do you think of this team?

Pretty solid. Only weaknesses I see are interior offensive lineman and average to below average running backs.

Short of breath and chest pain?

Lately I have been short of breath for no reason at all even when i'm laying down and on top of that my chest hurts a little and i feel like ping out i admit i don't eat as much as I should and am not very active im not sure what i should do, I have no health inshurance and live paycheck to paycheck

I KNOW IT IS LONG BUT PLZ HELP & I'LL GIVE YOU 10 PTS & ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS YOU HAVE!!!!?

I don't think you should after a guy who does not think of you as number 1. You should never be with someone who doesn't love you the most. I think you will find someone else who loves you more than anyone else in the world. Then you will be happy. Not with someone who blocks you and is in love with another girl.

How do i make a guy chase me again after his signs of lost interest?

Ignore him too!!! As soon as he feels you arent as interested he'll want you back. Guys are stupid like that. Try it , good luck!

I'm planning to start any business. (no cookery&tuitions)?

Please suggest me your views as I'm planning to start any business (no cookery & tuitions) and I have no prior experience. I'm married 3 months back, a PG holder & residing in Purasaiwakkam, Chennai. I'm confident because my husband is very supportive.

My hamster hurt her foot?

My hamster was chewing on the bars of her cage so I decided to take her out and put her in her ball for a while. After a few mins I noticed she was scratching alot, then I noticed some strings of blood around the ball. I took her out of the ball and put her in the empty bathtub so I could get a good look (she hates being held) and I managed to grab her and the blood was on her feet but nowhere else :S I can't get her to a vet because it's 2am and I'm broke (between jobs) Is there anything I can do besides keep rinsing her feet?

How about this for possible Boston Celtic roster additions?!?

I hate when dumb people add to a posting with a dumb answer "im sorry but the trade deadline is over" lol really if you knew about basketball u would know buyouts happen all the time......celtics can still get hamilton and murphy if they r bought out

Did any of The Jacksons have any successful solo records?

I know they were a hugely successful act but did any of them - Jermaine,Randy,Michael,Tito, Dave etc - have any successful solo records?

If the Celtics big 3 and shaq and jermaine were all back in there primes would they kill miami?

yea but if shaq and jermaine were in their primes they would have asked for more money, making it impossible for the celtics to sign them, so they wouldnt be on this celtics team

Could somebody help me make these complete sentences?

firstly he cant go on paternity leave HE is not pregnant and he is such a "supportive husband" BEFORE he was married .. well dat jus dont make any sense at all

Abortion/grief/failed relationship?

You need God! You should repent & ask for forgiveness Pray to Jesus & tell him you're so sorry for murdering your innocent baby.Pray & you will be forgiven.Obortion is an ABOMBINATION in Gods eyes & is so sad why did you do this? I have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years & have had no luck.I dont understand women like you who are so selfish.Abortion is disgusting! I want a baby so bad & its so sad what you've done!

Friend's mother making me feel bad about not going to college?

I went to college right after high school, and ended up dropping out. I just wasn't ready. I'm 25 now, and still haven't gone back, because frankly, I don't know what I want to do with my life yet. And people will always tell you the longer you wait the more likely you will never go. Well, my husband is 28 and decided last year to go back. He's close to finishing because he found something he wanted to do so he worked hard for it. If your content with how things are going then don't let somebody pressure you. Tell her you will go when and if you're ready. You don't have to be a college graduate to be happy in life. A lot of people I went to high school with who have degrees are not doing anything. Just do what makes you happy and screw everyone's opinion.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Transgender=a symptom of mental illness?

don't let her get to you, she doesn't understand. i've answered a question of yours before when you asked if it was a mistake to come out to your parents, and i posted about a person who you could talk to about your issues, her name is Kim Pearson. i really highly suggest you talk to her about everything that's going on. you can find her on facebook and message her. i know you don't know her, but she is a very good person to talk to about this. you can search Kim Pearson TYFA on google or look up TransYouth Family Allies. PLEASE just try to contact her, she is very strong-willed and completely dedicated to her profession, and she will help you with family issue, personal issues, and she can even help you figure out if you really are trans or not (if you really believe your ignorant mother) Kim has been to conferences all over the country several times, done several interviews, and she REALLY knows what she's doing.

How do you stop being bitter and let something go?

Stop making it so important and stop caring about it ... that is, IF you truly want to let go of it. It is what it is, you can't change the past, move on.

Is it normal to be nervous about going to a gay club for the first time?

I've recently come out to quite a few of my friends and the ones who are supportive said, "Don't worry once you're comfortable with being gay, we'll take you to a gay club." And the idea just made me freeze. A gay club?? I'd feel so incredibly uncomfortable there! With those flamboyant gays and the drag queens.. but I do know I can't generalize and I have to at least try it out but the thought really scares me. Is it normal to feel this way?

I've got a new boy problem?

talk to other guys, keep this hs guy close for friend wise. and if he falls in love with you &me non of the guys you've talked to are worth it. than give your guy friend a shot.

Would the Celtics be Better then the Heat if they Had these Players?

Well of course they would be the best team in nba history.. this aint even possible only on a video game.

Pregnant Girlfriend pushing me away to the point it is damaging our relationship?

These are perfect examples of Hormone changes. ( My wife went through the same crap ) Males can not understand, or keep up with the sways from hot to cold. All you can do is retract a little, but be there when she needs you. Support her, but don't believe everything she says or does. If you love her, hang on, the ride lasts 9 months. ( Been there done that, been married 38 years. )

How do I get the courage to take care and honor my self again?

I know this sounds crazy but like I don't come from a supportive fan I don't glhqve many friends it's always been hard for me to trust people like when I always did well :: lost weight graduated college they were never really happy for me although they said they were there is always negative connotations ::: how do I get ped that inorder to reach my dreams???

Work at it or let it die?

I recently got a divorce. My ex and I were fighting lots and there was cheating on both sides during the separation, which we later confessed to eachother. He said we should get together after the divorce and I thought that sounded weird but thought hey it may work. Divorce over and we still are hanging out and talking frequently and sleeping together, like nothing has changed. I know we love eachother alot and both were idiots for hooking up with other people. He's saying how we should get back together. We have a history of eight yrs together. I still think about his hook up and it hurts and I'm sure my hook up hurts him too. Should cut the chord or work this one out? How do I know we could repair this or is it repairable? I spent all my twenties with him and am thirty now. How do I know we could work this out effectively and not repeat bad patterns. I felt like he coulda been more supportive before the split since we fought all the time and he says the same. The gr was definitely not greener for both of us, we learned. But should we take another stab or just cut off contact?

My ex girlfriend won't touch my....?

heart. She broke up with me, then she tried to contact me a lot. I didnt respond because I was trying to heal. Then once i gave in and replied, she wouldnt respond. I was very good to her. I was emotionally supportive, a great companion, and very reliable. I helped her pay of high interest debt and brought her on a few long vacations internationally. She doesnt make much money and had to work less while we were gone. She got an apartment that was a bit out of her price range. Now she says i screwed her life. Why would she say this? What is she thinking? Similar expiriences? I always went above and beyond...I dont understand her.

How should I forgive and forget his mistakes?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and a half. And between the time we started dating and up till 1 year, he used to go out a lot. It didn't bother me at first, but after a while he told me he'd come back from clubbing at 5 am, drink a lot, not remember and sometimes stay with his friends in an apartment. Slowly my insecurities started to build. I hated how he had facebook and he'd talk to girls, girls I don't like or don't want him to talk to because I know they would just want to get with him. The night of his birthday, he went out clubbing and also rented out an apartment, I wasn't allowed to go but it hurt coz he invited all the girls I dissapproved of. He didn't even show my the birthday list and who he invited. He didn't show me any photos, nothing. He promised he'd call me if i texted him, and I did, i waited 4 hours and all i got was a text saying "sorry i missed your text.' So i said "dw you're busy with you're stupid party.' And somehow it got spun around where he made it look like it was my fault. Another time I went on his facebook and saw a chatlog to one of his mates saying he was so drunk that he didn't remember what happened and came back home wearing a girls jacket. I never asked him till after so many months and he just said "he just saw it lying around and wore it." He denied talking to this girl when I asked him did you talk to her on facebook. Its so unfaiir because I get punished for talking to 2 of my closest guy friends and he gets away with all this. But this year he begged for my forgivenes, saying he wouldn't do it again, and this year he's hasn't gone out clubbing. MY question is should forgive him and forget bout it all?

My Guinea Pig Died! :'-(?

I'm SO sorry, if my guinea pig died I'd be crushed! She is still young, but I just want to ket you know that it's going to be okay, and that your guinea pig lived a long happy life, and absolutely adored you, so don't be sad that you don't have him anymore, be glad about the time you got to spend with him, and love him!

Suddenly paranoid that im pregnant. (long and detailed)?

You cant get pregnant if you only having . Chances are if you had a uti you would know thats what it is it hurts really bad. your probably stressing yourself out. give the pill some time and if your still concerned call your doc they would be more then happy to answer all your questions.

Front tooth suddenly pressure sensitive?

Hi. I haven't had any filling or anything in this tooth, and I'm almost positive it isn't rotting away.. this happens every 6 months or so, and the same tooth will get sensitive for a few days then stop. It doesn't hurt, it just feels tingly and is sensitive when I add pressure to it. It's one of a few teeth that are crooked... I don't know if that has anything to do with it. I used some Sensodyne, but it's just annoying and uncomfortable. I can eat and everything too.

Breaking my heart?? Hurting pls!!!!?

Long story short I've been seeing this guy for about a month and we had a special connection and he had baggage from his ex of 8 years he's been talking to and he said he was completely over her but he wanted me to trust him. He met my parents etc then he found out his mom had cancer he told me he didn't want a relationship now and he said to be honest his ex is in the medical field and she's helping him with doctors etc but still wants to remain talking to me . What should I do And I was under his plan with my phone and he said he would open one under my name and keep paying and today he randomly texted me saying let's get an account today under my name for my phone and I told him it's oKl to cut it off and he did and I got pissed I wrote let's just not speak and forget because u lead me on I deserve better and he was like okay your pissed for nothing I understand if you don't want to talk to me u don't have to change ur number and I'll always have a special place for you in my heart. What does this mean is he playing with me I'm tired of this!?he's saying his parents are sick and he's not ready for a relationship an I don't know about his drama is he into me?